Valentine’s Day is here! Hearts, chocolates, and grand gestures are everywhere—but have you ever thought about what the Bible says about being a good spouse? It turns out, the best love advice isn’t just found in rom-coms or greeting cards; it’s been in Scripture all along! So grab your coffee, snuggle up with your sweetheart (or your favorite cozy blanket), and let’s dive into some biblical wisdom on being the best husband or wife you can be.
1. Love Like Christ Loved the Church (Ephesians 5:25)
Husbands, this one’s for you. Paul tells us in Ephesians 5:25, “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” No pressure, right? But seriously—Christ’s love was sacrificial, unconditional, and full of grace. That means putting your wife’s needs above your own, showing patience, and leading with kindness. Flowers are great, but a love that serves is even better!
2. Respect and Uplift (Ephesians 5:33)
Ladies, the Bible also has a word for wives: “However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.” (Ephesians 5:33). Respect doesn’t mean losing your voice or opinions—it means honoring and encouraging your husband. Speak life into him, cheer him on, and be his safe place. And yes, appreciating his attempts to fix things around the house (even if it takes forever) counts!
3. Be Patient and Kind (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
Ah, the classic wedding passage. But it’s not just for ceremonies—it’s for everyday love! “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.” (1 Corinthians 13:4). That means showing grace when your spouse leaves dishes in the sink (again) or forgetting to nag about socks on the floor. Love is a daily choice to be kind, even when you don’t feel like it.
4. Forgive Quickly (Colossians 3:13)
No marriage is perfect, disagreements happen. But Colossians 3:13 reminds us, “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” In other words, don’t hold grudges. A happy marriage isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being quick to forgive and move forward in love.
5. Have Fun Together (Ecclesiastes 9:9)
Yes, fun is biblical! Ecclesiastes 9:9 says, “Enjoy life with your wife, whom you love.” That means making time for date nights, laughing at inside jokes, and being each other’s best friend. Marriage isn’t just about surviving; it’s about thriving together. Whether it’s a spontaneous road trip or a cozy night in, find joy in each other’s presence.
6. Pray Together (Matthew 18:20)
Finally, one of the most powerful ways to strengthen your marriage is through prayer. Matthew 18:20 says, “For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.” When you pray together, you invite God into your relationship. Whether it’s praying over big decisions or just giving thanks for each other, let God be the center of your love story.
Final Thoughts
This Valentine’s Day let’s go beyond chocolates and roses (though those are nice too) and focus on what truly matters—biblical love. Whether you’re newlyweds or celebrating decades together, strive to love as Christ loves. Because at the end of the day, the best love story is the one written by God.
Happy Valentine’s Day! 💕
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